Men are not afraid of marriage — they’re afraid of a bad marriage. Yes, so much so that some never make that ultimate commitment and say "I do." That’s the word from Carl Weisman, author of "So Why Have You Never Been Married? Ten Insights Into Why He Hasn’t Wed." The lifelong bachelor says, "Men are 10 times more scared of marrying the wrong person than of never getting married at all." "This is the first generation of people who have grown up with bad divorces. People assume there is something wrong if you don’t marry, but these are men who have made a different choice and not given in to social pressures."